Tuesday, May 30, 2017

there's time

We live in a pretty go-go-go world. We want our coffees to go, our downloads instant, and our projects completed. 

Having your own business is weird because the more you work, or I should say, the harder you work, the more rewards you reap. It exaggerates this concept of go-go-go and before you even realize it, you've gotten yourself into a stress spiral of:





And don't get me wrong, it's not just business owners who feel this way. It's absolutely everyone. It's career stuff, house stuff, personal health stuff -- we all have the go-go-go voice telling us we have a million things to pursue and that we have to do them all NOW.

I think deep down we're all a little bit afraid of falling off the train and getting left behind if we take longer than a moment to breathe, rest, and reflect. 

The thing I'm slowly realizing is that the time constraints we feel are almost always completely made up. You don't HAVE to buy a house just because you've rented for 5 years or because your friends have all finished up with the apartment life. You don't NEED to paint your guest room before it gets too hot to paint in the Summer. You made that up! 

Unless there's an actual expiry date or a consequence to not doing something, the words I'm choosing to live by are:




There's time for everything you want to do. Let the clock stop sticking for a few hours and try to relieve the imagined pressure. You're doing enough. You are enough. You're right where you're supposed to be and THERE'S TIME to slow down. 

And just for kicks, have your coffee "for here" instead of "to go."

Monday, May 29, 2017

launch your space | ottawa interior designer

Friends! Something NEW & COOL on the blog today! I had the pleasure of photographing Melanie, an interior designer with a darling personality and fantastic taste, who recently started her company called Launch Your Space. I can't wait to see her new website in the coming weeks! 

We had the best time last week taking these photos together. I can't even tell you how much I enjoy creating visual assets for small business owners. I love the idea that their hard work can be shared on a larger scale, and help them find the perfect clients.

Plus, now I know where to send everyone I know for design inspiration!

Please observe the tiny tail on the left of the photo...! That's my new friend Wally, who wanted to be in ever single photo. No complaints over here ;)

Melanie's home is amazing. I mean, this should be obvious because it's her job and all, but everywhere I looked there was an opportunity for a beautiful photo. 

Being in a beautiful space makes for ultimate relaxation. Just ask Wally.

Probably my favourite headshot of all time. 

This girl is so cool, and can't take a bad photo to save her life. 

I can't wait to see the finished product on the Launch Your Space website!


Friday, May 26, 2017

choosing wedding vendors who will self-manage

You know the binder I'm talking about... 

It has thick white pages with embossed edges, bound with a gold spiral and a cover that makes you so excited about your upcoming wedding. It starts out so clean and empty, but after the first few months there are magazine clippings and post its with mysterious phone numbers peeking out between the pages. 

And at the very back, under a page that's titled "BUDGET NOTES," you've created a chart where you are comparing at least 2 vendors in each category. Wedding planner, photographer, hair, makeup, florals...the list goes on. 

Maybe you're a decisive bride who knew right away who she wanted to work with. If that's the case, then you've already crushed this blog post and I'll let you head back over to Pinterest, which is where I know you want to be. 

But in case you're not, and in the event that you're sick of looking at your own cost-analysis spreadsheets, I wanted to share a few tips for choosing vendors that will add value to the experience of your wedding day. That's right, these are people who should be doing more than simply performing the task they were hired to do. They should be improving your entire bridal experience. And I'll tell you how. 

First of all, let's identify two different types of wedding vendors. There are people who are just really good at performing a service or creating a product, and then there are business owners. Take for example, your cousin who does an awesome smokey eye and has a Facebook page but no website, versus a professional makeup artist who operates full time, while also writing educational content on her makeup blog, teaching workshops, and dreaming of creating her own line of cosmetics.

The business owner also has to be really good at doing bridal makeup, but she can't stop there. She's running a successful business and her reputation is on the line.  

Both of these vendors will make you look magazine-ready on the big day, but only one of them will answer your last minute emails during the weeks leading up to your wedding. Only one of these people will go out of their way to educate you about the products they use, or double/triple/quadruple check that you were so happy with your makeup trial. 

And when you compared these two vendors in your chart, we all know who charged a little bit more.

When a business owner values their time, as in, they actually quantify how much they believe they should be paid for hours worked, they are also factoring in time responding to emails, offering additional assistance to certain clients who might need more help, hiring assistants, and building relationships in their industry.

When something goes wrong on the wedding day, I want the vendor who believes it's in her job description to help me. Not the one who is only there to apply the makeup.

When a bride asks me for vendor recommendations I do my best to explain that the people I'm recommending are self-managers. These are people who I know my brides can rely on when it comes to a) booking their wedding, b) communicating throughout the entire planning process, c) fulfilling their service/delivering their product on time or ahead of schedule, and d) managing their own process. 

When you hire business owners who can self-manage, you won't have to spend time managing them.

A really good example of this is the part of the wedding day where family photos are taken. Someone who is really good at taking photos will follow along on a shot list that you've created. The professional photographer on the other hand, will run the show. When they click the shutter, they already know the next formation and who is needed. And not only that, but they can call everyone by name and make them feel like a VIP. And if Aunt Susan is nowhere to be found, the professional knows which bridesmaid to task with the job of hunting her down. 

For a professional photographer, a problem is never the bride's problem. And when you're hiring a professional photographer, you're hiring someone who considers it their job to find a solution.

And as a first time bride, it's difficult to understand the value of that experience when you're 14 months away from your wedding day. 

But maybe you've been a guest or a bridesmaid in a wedding where the family members were herded like cattle. Maybe you know there needs to be a different way. Or maybe you can picture what it would be like to have your nose in a 4-page shot list, and you've decided you'd rather be sipping champagne and laughing with your maid of honour. 

Trust me when I say, you'll have a whole lot more fun and be way less stressed if you're treated like a Queen by a top notch group of people. 

When you think of creating your list of vendors, think of these people as your teammates. These are people who are there to serve you and your wedding day. These are people you're going to want to rely on.

At the end of it all, when it comes time to make a decision between two vendors on your budgeting chart, my best advice is to go with the person who you feel will come through for you no matter what. Who gives you that feeling of total and complete trust, where you can sign a contract and breathe a sigh of relief knowing that you made the right choice. 

I'm always thrilled when a couple loves their wedding photos, but what fills my heart with joy is the moment when they tell me that I was the best decision they made when planning their wedding. 

This post featured behind the scenes photos from the stunning minimalist & monochrome european inspired styled shoot that was recently featured on Ruffled

Click here to see the full shoot!


Styling and Coordination: TOAST Events
Hair: Topknot
Makeup: Klava Zykova
Florals: Floralia 
Menswear: L'HEXAGONE
Invitation Suite and Live Painting: LaFabère
Cake & Sweets: OSSO Sweet
Videography: Up North Wedding Films
Models: Savanah and Kyle from Angie's Models

Thursday, May 25, 2017

alexandria + stephen | sunset engagement in kanata

I love when people say they've never had professional photos taken before and then this happens...

It's like finding a boyfriend with no bad habits. A clean slate for me to teach a few tricks that make your love look real without being cheesy.  

Plus when we have stunning sunset light on a giant open field, magic can be made. Allow me to introduce you to Alexandria and Stephen, one of my newest couples for a 2017 wedding. They'll be making it official at City Hall this Summer, with some portraits to follow.  

And now that they're photo pros, I can't wait to hang out with them again for a fancier version of this:

Obsessed with this ring!! 

And the way Alexandria's hair moved in the wind. 

It was so great to finally meet you guys in person! Countdown to August starts now <3